The Four Rules of Concentration

 

Parents and students often wonder what the secret to academic success is. If you want to give your child a tactical advantage in school, provide them with a strategy, a game plan, and tips for becoming a champion (in school). My suggestion for creating a gold medal experience is to teach your children the four rules of concentration.

1. Focus your eyes: Directly look at the person teaching or the material you are studying to reduce distractions.
2. Focus your ears: Engage in active listening, paying attention to the instructor and the information being shared.
3. Focus your body: Maintain a good posture, signaling to your body and mind that you are prepared to receive information. 
4. Focus your mind: Clear your thoughts of distractions and keep your mind engaged on the task at hand, rather than letting it wander.

Welcome back, students! As you settle into your new routines, remember that a new school year is a chance to learn incredible things. To do that, you'll need one of your most powerful tools: your ability to concentrate.

Getting distracted is easy—a buzzing phone, a friend whispering, or just a wandering mind. But with a little practice, you can train yourself to stay focused. Here are four simple rules to help you master the art of concentration.

Rule 1: Focus Your Eyes

Your eyes are like a magnet for information. If they're darting around the room, they'll pick up on everything but what you need to learn. Whether you're in the classroom, the library, or your bedroom, direct your gaze to the task at hand. 

* In class: Look at the teacher when they are speaking. When you're working, look at the page in your book or the screen in front of you.

* At home: Keep your workspace free of distractions. Put away toys, games, and anything else that might catch your eye, especially no TV.

Rule 2: Focus Your Ears

It's distracting to listen to every little sound, but your ears can be trained to tune out the noise. Your brain can decide what to listen to and what to ignore. Always listen with the intent to learn. 

* In class: Listen for keywords and essential instructions from your teacher. Practice "active listening" by thinking about what they're saying instead of just hearing the words.

* At home: If your house is noisy, try using noise-canceling headphones. Ambient noise from the rest of the house may be very distracting and may even motivate you to leave your room to interact with brothers and sisters at play. 

3. Focus Your Body

A fidgety body makes for a fidgety mind. When constantly shifting or wiggling, it's hard for your brain to stay on track. Learning to keep your body calm and still helps your mind settle down, too.

* Find a comfortable, sturdy chair that allows you to sit straight up. Don't study a book at home while lying down. The only time you should lie down is if you want to take a nap.

* Before you start a task, take a few deep breaths. This simple action can help you relax, and extra oxygen fuels your body and mind for focus.

* If you feel antsy, try a quick stretch or take a short walk to reset before returning to your work. Getting up every twenty minutes at home gives you a small recharge (like plugging in your phone). Your body needs movement to offset extended sitting. If you need to take a longer break, drink some water and focus on something completely different. I call this rinsing out the sponge.

4. Focus Your Mind

Now, the most important rule of all is training your mind to have laser focus. Sometimes your mind is like a wild pony—it wants to run off in a million different directions. The other three rules are tools to help you bring it back. When your mind wanders, gently guide it back to what you must do.

* If you find yourself daydreaming, say to yourself, "Okay, back to work." It’s also alright to get up and move. A person's mind and body don't work independently; movement resets both. 

* Break your big tasks into smaller, manageable chunks. This makes hard work seem less overwhelming and more straightforward when mastering new material. 

* Reward yourself! After you've focused for a set amount of time, take a short break to do something you enjoy. I recommend staying away from your phone. Reading a message or a social media post may create anxiety and steal your focus.

When I taught students how to spar against a bigger and stronger opponent, they had better not think about what they would wear to school the next day. One second of lost focus could be painful when a strong punch found its way into their stomachs. When you are in the zone, you are in the zone.

Practicing these four rules will improve grades and build a skill that will help in every part of life. Good luck and have a great school year!

Mike Bogdanski

3 Important things

 

It’s a wonderful day

This is a wonderful day, I have never seen this one before.”   ― Maya Angelou

Life

Fault

 

Don’t find fault, find a remedy; anybody can complain.

Edison

Strategy- Sun Tzu

A military operation involves deception. Even though you are competent, appear to be incompetent. Though effective, appear to be ineffective. • Sun Tzu

Mother's, Let your children be Black Belts

I couldn't have said it better myself, so instead let my friend, martial arts guru Tom Callos say it instead.

Kids who immerse themselves in martial arts practice don’t end up being the victims of bullies in school, they’re left alone, as bullies most usually pick on kids they know aren’t going to stand up for themselves. Kids who study the martial arts also usually end up being adults —who don’t get bullied in the workplace.

Kids who practice the martial arts hang out with teens and adults who practice the martial arts —and those are most often people who value physical exercise, good nutrition, calmness under pressure, and who set goals and methodically —and with no small amount of effort, —set out to achieve them. Not a bad crowd to hang out with at all.

Kids who study the martial arts often hear power words like “respect,” “courtesy,” “focus,” “compassion,” “kindness,” and “perseverance” 10,000 times more than any TV show or any amount of computer time provides in the same amount of time. Kids in the martial arts learn to put these words into action, too, in every practice session —and as a result, they often become the foundation for a lifetime of beliefs and practices.

Kids who practice the martial arts hear adults who practice martial arts saying things like, “If a picture is worth 1000 words, then an action is worth 1000 pictures,” and “If you can’t, then you must —and if you must, then you will,” and ““The ultimate aim of the martial arts lies not in victory nor defeat, but in the perfection of the character of its participants,” and “anger is an acid that does more harm to the vessel it is contained in than anything it is poured over” —and these ideas, kept in the mind and put to use, can, in one’s life, end up being absolute, concrete, worth their weight in gold game-changers.

Kids who practice the martial arts can grow up to be adults who write things like this —and who, nearly every day of the year, teach, coach, mentor, encourage, and motivate young people to not only look for and be their best, physically, mentally, and emotionally, but in how to take what they learn on the mats of their dojo —and put it to work in their lives, in their communities, in the world, to their own benefit and to the benefit of others.

Go ahead momma’s, let your babies grow up to be black belts.